What we celebrate on the feast of St. Valentine? Each year on this day out stories very similar: a Valentine III century priest executed by married couples of the soldiers of the army against the emperor's orders, which the bride threw flowers and letters from the window of the cell, or the party that the Romans celebrated the March 14 dedicated to Juno the mother of the gods went to a carnival-type celebration called Lupercalia where young wolf disguised hit on their hands with bladders (balloons would say today) in a rite augurs well for pregnant women and fertility for the rest. And the story of the lady in the middle of marketed nineteenth century Valentine cards in the U.S. (where else could be). And so the feast of Saint Valentine is a strange puzzle pieces that are only remotely to do with the day of love and friendship.
to me it seems to me that the title is very good, because there can be no love without friendship, without love or friendship. In our culture as prone to love is on everyone's lips is not easy to find good friends. Certainly the word friendship has a very broad, ranging from simply knowing someone, even the relationship you have with a person you lay down your life, but we agree that true friend (we have to include this specification) is the person you're willing to bet yourself. Is the person for whom you can exchange. I have to me that friends are not forgotten, true friends are forever. But there are several types of friends. The friends having fun, the friends you keep company, friends who share your life, which are rooted in your life. The first two are interchangeable, the second two are irreplaceable. And as life progresses, you realize the need for real friends.
Friendship is capable of crossing many trials, proof of deception, of the fragility test, the test of time, including proof of treason when it comes with a repentant heart. Friendship is the necessary step for love, the condition for love, the security of love. Sometimes love, today word repeated over and over again today, seems to last a short time. How is it possible that love is over? When friendship is destroyed, or never existed friendship. When he certificate of nationality to a love life that he had no hand in friendship. Then when it ends in love, when feelings are deflated when the relationship hit problems when Wind blows on living your daily routine, where temptations appear to look the other way, if there is friendship, love breaks and leaves to build bridges between the two. If a couple, if some husbands are not friends before, they have very few hours, because as someone said in Jerusalem two thousand years ago: the best friend who is willing to give his life for the beloved, and if not, Love will have a short life as a box of chocolates.
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